|
Counter Street Gangs Intelligence Consulting Solutions Inc.
Specializing in Domestic Terrorism
823 W. Park Avenue, Suite 161 Ocean, NJ 07712 (732) 922-4525 or (732) 922-4514
Federal CSI 2042930-03 NJ CSI CC 021770116-791-695 Del CSI - 1738524
|
|
|
GANGS Awareness, Prevention, Intervention Risk Factors for Joining a Gang
Protective Factors
Gang Prevention Youth gang involvement is not a new phenomenon in the United States. Gangs have been known to exist in our country since the 18th-century. Philadelphia was trying to devise a way to deal with roaming youth disrupting the city in 1791. According to the National School Safety Center, officials in New York City acknowledged having gang problems as early as 1825. The gang problem is not likely to go away soon or to be eliminated easily.
Here are a few gang-prevention strategies:
Violence is a learned behavior.
Children learn violent behaviors from their family and peers, as well as observe it in their neighborhoods and in the community at large. These behaviors are reinforced by what youth see on television, on the Internet, in video games, movies, music videos, and what they hear in their music.
When children are disciplined with severe corporal punishment or verbal abuse, or when they are physically or sexually abused, or when they witness such behavior in their home, it is not surprising that they behave violently toward others.
Research studies have shown that violent behavior can be decreased or even prevented if these risk factors are significantly reduced or eliminated:
Most importantly, efforts should be directed at dramatically decreasing the exposure of children and adolescents to violence in the home, community, and through the media.
As an individual is exposed to more risk factors, the probability that he or she will engage in violent behavior increases. Clearly, violence leads to violence.
Warning Signs
Get help quickly if your child is exhibiting these warning signs for potential violence:
Typically, the greater the number of these warning signs present, the greater the risk. It is important to realize, however, that many children exhibit these warning signs and never resort to violence. Even so, these signs can be a cue that something is wrong, and your child needs help.
Parenting Teens Rules & Boundaries
Family rules and boundaries can provide a sense of stability to teens who are struggling to decipher relationships, roles, and even their own personalities. Although they may protest loudly against being required to live up to certain standards, when they have a hand in crafting those standards, and when those standards are demanding but fair, teenagers will flourish. Having something steady, firm, and predictable in a head spinning world is like being handed a map, with NORTH plainly marked. Clear boundaries and standards are the gauge by which all other information is measured.
Rules, Boundaries, and Older
Children
For those parents who haven’t set up a structured agreement when their child turns 18, it’s never too late to set one up. Even if your child is 23, living under your roof and staying out until the wee hours, it’s never too late to sit down with that kid and say, "We’re going to have to have a talk about our rules here and what parts fit you and what parts don’t fit you." If a kid is 23 years old and he’s not working, he can’t be up until two o’clock in the morning with friends in the house, keeping other people awake. You may feel obligated to provide that child with a roof over his head. But you have the right to let him know that "This is not your home for that anymore. We’re going to bed, we’re tired, we worked all day. If you’re going to live here, you have to live within our rules." If he tries to put you down for it, you need to put your foot down. If that means taking the car keys, then that’s what it means.
Coaching: Focusing on Solutions & Getting Results You Want
Just as an athletic coach helps players train and condition to reach their individual and team goals, a life coach can help you reach your personal goals and family goals.
Through coaching, you will:
ABOUT THE AUTHOR National CSI support James Lehman is a behavioral therapist and the creator of The Total Transformation Program for parents. He has worked with troubled children and teens for three decades. James holds a Masters Degree in Social Work from Boston University. Learn more about the Total Transformation Program |
Send
|